On your profile
- Leave out your surname, street and workplace.
- Use photos that are not on your other social accounts.
- Keep explicit photos in a private gallery.
Payment and messages
VIP bills under a plain name. Keep chats on the site until you trust someone, and do not share your number too early.
Meeting up
Pick somewhere neither of you is a regular. Our safety page has more, and casual sex after 50 covers health.
Common questions
Will anyone know I have joined?
Only if you tell them; your profile shows a rough area only.
Can I hide my profile for a while?
Yes, from your account settings.